Ever watched live squirting? If yes, have you marveled at the performer's confidence and pleasure? Well, whether or not you did, we are definitely always wondering about how they managed to create the intense and liberating experience. Not only this but by keeping a close eye on the squirting or female ejaculation, you can quickly bring the experience for yourself to your personal space, too. However, in order to do it, there's an understanding of anatomy, practicing specific techniques and having the right mindset. As for the rest, explore the process solo or go ahead with your partner; the guide here, in the form of some important tips, will help you unlock a fantastic ability to explore your sexuality and squirt.
Before we dive into some important techniques, it's essential to know key parts of one's anatomy that become a part of squirting. To begin with, knowing one's body is necessary. It makes the process smooth and enjoyable.
This is the squirting epicenter. It is located on the vagina's upper wall, approximately 1 to 3 inches from the vaginal entrance. The area is highly sensitive, and when aroused, it gets swollen, soft and gets spongy to the touch. It thereby becomes easier to locate it. These spots are pivotal for stimulation, which leads to the process of squirting.
It is also called the female prostate. The gland surrounds the urethra, and it produces fluid, which is released at the time of squirting. If you have seen a live squirt cam show, you might have noticed how the stimulation continues to engage Skene's gland. Now, you might not be aware of the term at that time, but now you are, and it will help you when you try squirting on your own, with better control and management of your body's anatomy.
Note: Don't get confused with the available online data, seeing the size and shape of the skene gland. Remember, the sensitivity and size of the gland vary pretty significantly from one person to another.
It is, in general, associated with external pleasure, and it makes the entire process to be quite pleasurable. Some people find clitoral stimulation to be an enhancer of their squirting ability. Well, if that's the case for you, try to focus on it as part of the arousal process.
Knowing the areas mentioned above helps to better direct the sensations and touch.
Squirting is not about mechanics only, it is also about arousal, relaxation and experimentation. So, when planning it, follow the below-mentioned pointers. It will help you bring yourself to the proper mental and physical state.
Before you explore, try to set the comfort stage. Lay down in your favorite spot or take a warm shower. Try to find a space where you are at ease and feel relaxed. It will help to reduce tension while making the body much more stimulated and receptive.
Try and take as much time as you want to get aroused. Spend time stimulating erogenous zones for at least 20-30 minutes. You can even read erotica or watch any intimate content like a live cam. It will help enhance the blood flow to the G-spot and even make it easy to stimulate. You can even try massaging the erogenous zone or use the vibrator.
After you are aroused, it will be time to experiment with varied techniques that can help your squirting be pleasurable. Some tried-and-true methods have been discussed below for you. Use these to maximize the chances of perfect arousal.
It is a simple but effective technique for targeting G-spot. For it,
• Insert the middle or the ring finger in the vagina with the palm facing right upward.
• Curl the fingers in the come-hither motion.
• Massage the G-spot in the position set.
• Adjust pressure and experiment with different levels to find out what feels the best.
In order to have a much more intense stimulation,
• Press fingers firmly against the G-spot.
• Move your arm up & down to apply pressure.
• The technique will help you in delivering a very high stimulation and better sensation. It will lead to an effective squirting.
The G-spot vibrators or the curved dildos can easily mimic hook motion while adding enhanced stimulation to the entire process. The tools are designed to reach G-spot with complete ease, making them an excellent choice in case manual stimulation feels tiring.
To share the squirting experience with your partner will deepen your pleasure and intimacy. However, remember that proper positioning will be the key. So, ask your partner to penetrate at an upward angle to reach the G-spot. Some positions like Jockey Position (lying on the stomach when the partner grinds), G-spot position, launch pad (better control over angle and depth with placed feet on the partner's chest), downstroke (more intense for the G-spot stimulation), etc., are pretty ideal for the targeted stimulation.
Further, remember that patience and communication will again be the best way to go forward. So, guide your partner about the depth and angle that would feel best. Do not try to rush the process. To try and build the arousal together would take time.
Remember, as you continue exploring varied techniques, you will feel the pressure, which is similar to the need to pee. It is pretty standard, and it is your skene gland that prepares you to release the fluid. So, relax and allow the sensation to build until you are finally ready to release.
Yes, orgasms and squirting are two different experiences. Some people squirt just right without a climax. However, others simultaneously achieve both.
Yes, all women have different body anatomy. Some people might find it way more challenging or might even feel impossible to squirt because of factors like the presence of Skene's gland or the size, etc.
Well, the best way would be to encourage them to learn about following guidance and your body anatomy. Try to share some informational articles with them or try to watch the tutorials with them; they will all be helpful.
Learning to squirt can be a very deeply satisfying experience. No matter you are trying it alone or with your partner, it is a perfect opportunity for you to explore your body while you connect with your inner desires and try to discover newer pleasure dimensions.
The use of the proper techniques inspired by the live cam performers will help you bring their confidence to your process while helping you gain expertise in intimate moments. Just remember, relaxation and patience are some of the best journey allies. So, enjoy the process, and remember to celebrate every single step towards your personal pleasurable goals.